tu<\/a> o tom psala. Tak\u017ee je to tak, \u017ee si sama sv\u00fdmi nev\u011bdom\u00fdmi strachy br\u00e1n\u00edm ot\u011bhotn\u011bt? Mo\u017en\u00e1 ano. No a nen\u00ed to tedy snad moje vina? A kdy\u017e ne moje, tak \u010d\u00ed?<\/p>\n\n\n\nUr\u010dit\u011b zn\u00e1te tu kr\u00e1snou mantru o tom, \u017ee jsou v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017eeme zm\u011bnit, v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 nem\u016f\u017eeme zm\u011bnit a pot\u0159ebujeme moudrost k tomu, abychom rozli\u0161ili, kter\u00e9 jsou kter\u00e9. A pak je\u0161t\u011b s\u00edlu a pokoru, abychom ty, kter\u00e9 zm\u011bnit nem\u016f\u017eeme, mohli v klidu p\u0159ijmout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tak jak je to s tou vinou? D\u011bl\u00e1m tu my\u0161lenkov\u00fd faul, jestli jste si v\u0161imli. Naho\u0159e \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, \u017ee v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e9 net\u011bhotenstv\u00ed m\u00e1 svoji p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu a p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny d\u011bl\u00edm na zdravotn\u00ed, psychick\u00e9 a du\u0161evn\u00ed. Jen\u017ee sou\u010dasn\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee ty p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny na \u00farovni du\u0161e nem\u016f\u017eu ovlivnit. Jestli\u017ee se du\u0161e miminka rozhoduje o tom, jestli si n\u00e1s vybere nebo nevybere za rodi\u010de, jak to m\u016f\u017eu ovlivnit? Jak to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt moje vina? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pot\u00e1c\u00edm se mezi t\u00edm, co m\u016f\u017eu ovlivnit, a t\u00edm, co ovlivnit nejde. Up\u00edn\u00e1m se jen to, co ovlivnit m\u016f\u017eu, a m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee to d\u011bl\u00e1m \u0161patn\u011b. A v tom je ta m\u00e1 vina. V m\u00e9m \u00fazk\u00e9m vid\u011bn\u00ed s optikou viny je to takto: nejsem t\u011bhotn\u00e1, proto\u017ee m\u00e1m n\u011bjak\u00e9 strachy, kter\u00e9 tomu br\u00e1n\u00ed. \u010cili moje vina. No jo, ale dok\u00e1\u017ee snad n\u011bkdo zaru\u010dit, \u017ee kdy\u017e se t\u011bch strach\u016f zbav\u00edm, tak ot\u011bhotn\u00edm? Nedok\u00e1\u017ee, proto\u017ee tak sch\u00e9matick\u00e9 to nen\u00ed. Tak\u017ee – je to skute\u010dn\u011b moje vina? Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u017ee nen\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je ale moje odpov\u011bdnost, jak se k tomu postav\u00edm. Op\u011bt m\u00e1m dv\u011b nadepsan\u00e9 mo\u017enosti – m\u011bnit, to co m\u011bnit lze, a p\u0159ijmout to, co m\u011bnit nelze. Zbavit se viny a hledat tu pokoru a moudrost. Zji\u0161\u0165ovat, co pat\u0159\u00ed do kter\u00e9 skupiny. Pracovat se sv\u00fdmi strachy a v\u011bdom\u011b zv\u011bt\u0161ovat ten \u00fazk\u00fd prostor pro novou du\u0161i. A sou\u010dasn\u011b p\u0159ij\u00edmat, \u017ee nic z toho nezaru\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee k tomu pak skute\u010dn\u011b dojde…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uf. D\u011bl\u00e1m to tak. A je to dost t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9. Je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 nenechat vinu, aby m\u011b zavalila. Mus\u00edm si to neust\u00e1le p\u0159ipom\u00ednat. I to, \u017ee na t\u011bhotn\u011bn\u00ed jsme \u010dty\u0159i – j\u00e1, m\u016fj mu\u017e, miminko a B\u016fh. Mo\u017en\u00e1 by pomohla i modlitba (aneb vrac\u00edm se vlastn\u011b k tomu, \u017ee jedin\u00e9, co pom\u00e1h\u00e1, je \u0161ukat a modlit se<\/a> :-)). Dr\u017ete se! J\u00e1 se dr\u017e\u00edm…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Dal\u0161\u00ed velk\u00e9 t\u00e9ma, kter\u00e9 se s m\u00fdm „net\u011bhotenstv\u00edm“ poj\u00ed a je velik\u00e9, je vina. M\u00e1m toti\u017e pocit, \u017ee skute\u010dnost, \u017ee st\u00e1le t\u011bhotn\u00e1 nejsem, je moje vina. V\u011b\u0159\u00edm tomu, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e9 t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed nebo net\u011bhotenstv\u00ed m\u00e1 n\u011bjak\u00fd d\u016fvod. N\u011bkdy zdravotn\u00ed, n\u011bkdy psychick\u00fd, n\u011bkdy na \u00farovni du\u0161e. R\u00fcdiger Dahlke ve sv\u00e9 knize Nemoc jako symbol uv\u00e1d\u00ed celou \u0159adu… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-181","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kdyz-miminko-neprichazi","category-pred-pocetim"],"yoast_head":"\n
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